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Those tweet went way too far..do I think she is not serious about marriage and likes the physical too much..yes...but no need for harsh name calling

by KNick 7/21/2015 1:31:28 AM

Emily didn't even want to kiss guys on show..

by Marina 7/21/2015 1:31:30 AM

I don't agree with reading those tweets....it was just a way to go soft on her....who is gonna be critical of her now?

by James 7/21/2015 1:31:36 AM

@kaylaperrin, as I understand it, the real truth came out later.

by krissy66 7/21/2015 1:31:38 AM

They all had sex but Kaitlyn didn't hide it that's why it is happening this way

by kdfalls 7/21/2015 1:31:43 AM

@Mamzelle, that was a really dumb comparison...

by Belle 7/21/2015 1:31:47 AM

@Mamzelle...you have to admit, when her first words to a man are about plowing her field...yes, that doesn't look good for her.

by kaylaperrin 7/21/2015 1:31:58 AM

Sorry but I'm pretty sure there has been quite a bit of sex over the seasons by both bachelors and bachelorettes.....who cares?

by Shelley 7/21/2015 1:32:07 AM

sleeping with Nick was not a good idea

by Michelle Wade 7/21/2015 1:32:28 AM

@Krissy...I don't doubt it! The difference here, of course, is that Kaitlyn jumped the gun and slept with Nick very quickly, with a whole camera crew outside the bedroom door. Notice no one is talking about what happened in the fantasy suites?

by kaylaperrin 7/21/2015 1:33:19 AM

@kdfalls, exactly. Ali F said in an interview recently that 95% of the contestants have sex during the season. Kaitlyn was just more open about it.

by krissy66 7/21/2015 1:33:28 AM

@Kdfalls...well, I don't believe that Sean had sex! He was a born again virgin. That's probably why he's one of my favs in recent memory.

by kaylaperrin 7/21/2015 1:33:30 AM

@Shelley I care. I want it on camera (I can't afford porn).

by Subroutine 7/21/2015 1:33:35 AM

Is Kaitlyn a little loosy and likes too goosy....well yeah...that can't be denied..think she likes to be seen as physical gal...

by KNick 7/21/2015 1:33:45 AM

@Shelley, if Kaitlyn had just waited for the fantasy suite it wouldn't be an issue.

by kaylaperrin 7/21/2015 1:34:17 AM

I wonder if it wasn't for Nick the creepy if she would be so hated for it

by kdfalls 7/21/2015 1:34:23 AM

Sean didn't have sex. He's part of the 5% who didn't.

by krissy66 7/21/2015 1:34:24 AM

@Belle I disagree and I find openly playful sexuality honest and beautiful. I see no shame there. Our own sexual shame is what makes us judge.

by Mamzelle 7/21/2015 1:34:29 AM

@Krissy...I think it was also the timing. She brought Nick on the show and one her first date with him she invited him to her room. That has been unprecedented.

by kaylaperrin 7/21/2015 1:34:41 AM

I refuse to judge her. I'm not a saint and I don't expect anyone else to be either. We're all human with normal human urges.

by krissy66 7/21/2015 1:35:47 AM

@kaylaperrin I think it's more offensive to wait for the producers to give you permission to make love. Again, I trust her authenticity.

by Mamzelle 7/21/2015 1:36:09 AM

@Mamzelle, I would have liked to see Kaitlyn be playful in a flirtatious way without so much talk about the emphasis on the physical connection vs emotional one. Maybe it was the balance that was missing.

by kaylaperrin 7/21/2015 1:36:22 AM

I would die if I was in her spot! It is not just sleeping with Nick. She was just making out with guys a lot without any serious conversations. It looked like that she was all about that,but those comments were over top rude.

by Marina 7/21/2015 1:36:36 AM

@Krissy...she's entitled to do what she wants, but she has to accept the repercussions.

by kaylaperrin 7/21/2015 1:36:58 AM

@Kayla, I agree with you

by Belle 7/21/2015 1:36:59 AM

@Mamzelle...the process is set up to be fair to all the guys. She wasn't fair to all the guys. She made her decision and the sex on the first date thing does make people see you a certain way. You either accept the consequences or don't "publicly" do the behaviour.

by kaylaperrin 7/21/2015 1:38:02 AM

@Marina...agreed.

by kaylaperrin 7/21/2015 1:38:20 AM

@kaylaperrin I see her physical connection is not separate from her emotional one. I see that she is whole and self assured.

by Mamzelle 7/21/2015 1:38:46 AM

I know she cant wait to get out of there!

by Belle 7/21/2015 1:38:56 AM

@Mamzelle, if that was the case, she wouldn't have regretted her action the next morning. She lives in the moment, which she admits. I think she needs to think first. I've seen too many "live in the moment" friends gets seriously hurt.

by kaylaperrin 7/21/2015 1:40:26 AM

She haaaates being questioned...she is NOT open to any comments...

by KNick 7/21/2015 1:40:28 AM

She would love to be on BIP.I think that show would be right for her.

by Marina 7/21/2015 1:40:31 AM

@kaylaperrin I think her fairness was in her authenticity. We do not have to accept the way people lash out when they do not agree with our values.

by Mamzelle 7/21/2015 1:40:35 AM

@kaylaperrin Yes, there is more hurt when we live in the moment.

by Mamzelle 7/21/2015 1:42:01 AM

She seems very well spoken here

by kdfalls 7/21/2015 1:42:31 AM

She looks like she could use a drink

by Shelley 7/21/2015 1:42:35 AM

@Marina she would love to be on BIP...

by James 7/21/2015 1:42:37 AM

Quote: One night of pleasure can cause a lifetime of pain!

by Belle 7/21/2015 1:42:38 AM

@Mamzelle...I agree, people were horribly nasty in what they said. However, when you know you're on TV you have to behave a little differently if you want approval from everyone else. It's not right, it's just reality. On a personal growth level, Kaitlyn regretted her hasty decision, so I think it's something to learn from in the future.

by kaylaperrin 7/21/2015 1:43:04 AM

Whatever I may think of her will never call her those names as "fun club" did. Yes,she can't wait to leave and watch her face. She is so...mad.

by Marina 7/21/2015 1:43:12 AM

They still haven't dealt with the elephant in the room.

by Maureen 7/21/2015 1:43:43 AM

@kdfalls she had plenty of time to rehearse

by James 7/21/2015 1:43:44 AM

@Belle...yep!

by kaylaperrin 7/21/2015 1:43:45 AM

She was on TV..she knew what she was doing.

by Maureen 7/21/2015 1:46:23 AM

Kayla,exactly.

by Marina 7/21/2015 1:46:24 AM

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